I always think that I'm a kind friend and always considerate and care for people's feelings. But recently, I realised that I'm actually not that kind of person. Is it that in the old times when I made fun of my friends and my friends said nothing? Or it depends on people to determine whether what I'm doing is over the limit?
I had a friend who is very nervous and he wants confirmation for everything, twice or thrice. Sometimes, when I'm focusing on something, he kept asking me things. Recently, I actually showed my frustrated expression to him. And, he kept saying sorry for that. And not long after that, he told me that he is going to leave my school as he is not suitable for engineering. I kind of feeling guilty for that. Is it because of my reluctancy to help him that causes him to think like that?
And I dunno whether I'm feeling guilty now or feeling scared that actually all people had that impression towards me. Am I a considerate person? Am I? I kept self-reflecting and suddenly I found I had a lot to do to improve my attitude towards friends and other people.
6 comments:
没有人是十全十美的。。
知道了缺点就慢慢去改。。
祝你成功。。
对我来说，你是有一点kap siao拉，但不至于不照顾别人的感受。可能我们会遇到一些人是不喜欢开玩笑（很认真的那种），那就是我们要学习的功课，就是我们要学习的做人的道理。。
慢慢来啦，你可以的。。
Just be yourself...
haha^^
~Be Happy~
哎哟，你人很有幽默感。（反正你没有拿我幽默。）
why not suitable for engineering? what is engineering???
he so fast nia give up liao?
等等，我暂时整理不出我真正想要说的话。
Thanks for sharing. Flashing back, I think I am not a considerate friend too. But for me, u r considered a considerate person. At least after u "kutuk" ppl, u will immediately say "just kidding". Haha. At least a friend that I would admire. Maybe we should just spend more time and effort to understand our friends. It's never to late.
Cheer on, my friend....
I apologize to him already and I've got my answer. I'm not the factor for his decision to leave. So relieved.
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